Intro
A stranger stands next to you at a bus stop. You wait in line at the bank. Your teacher is late for class. What can you do with this time? You can make small talk. When you meet a new person, you can have a short, simple conversation. This is small talk. It’s a way to get to know someone. Some of the most popular small talk topics include the weather, sports, family, and work. These are all universaltopics that anyone can talk about.
Some people think that small talk is difficult. They feel shy, or they don’t feel prepared to talk to strangers. Other people even think that small talk is cliche. They prefer to have more meaningful conversations, and they don’t want to talk about simple things like the weather. But small talk is a great way to meet new friends and learn new things. Sometimes, all you need is a smile to begin a conversation.
Jessica is going to go on a date with her secret admirer, but she is nervous. Watch today’s English lesson to hear Sara’s small talk ideas.
Sara_R: Marni said you have a secret admirer.
Jessica: Someone has been leaving me gifts. I’m thinking about meeting him for coffee this Friday.
Sara_R: You’re not sure?
Jessica: I am so bad at small talk.
Sara_R: It’s normal to feel shy on a first date.
Jessica: Not just on first dates. I am always bad at small talk. I never know what to say to someone who I’ve just met.
Sara_R: You can ask him about the weather.
Jessica: But that’s so cliche. I want to talk about more meaningful things.
Sara_R: I hear what you’re saying. Hey, I have an idea! Make a list before you go of things to ask him about.
Jessica: Like what?
Sara_R: Ask him about his family. Ask him which countries he’s visited, or if he hasn’t traveled, where he wants to go. Ask about his job.
Jessica: But isn’t that kind of boring?
Sara_R: Not at all. Family, travel, work… those are all universal topics that everyone can talk about. It’s how people get to knoweach other, whether you’re on a date, or taking a class together, or waiting for the bus…
Jessica: OK. But will you help me? I want to feel prepared.
Sara_R: Of course! Small Talk 101. Tomorrow afternoon?
Jessica: Great. Thank you, Sara.
Sara_R: I’m happy to do it.
Jessica’s secret admirer has been giving her many presents. She tells Sara that she will probably go on a date with him. But she is very nervous about making small talk. She feels like she has nothing to say. Sara gives her some ideas. She suggests talking about the weather, but Jessica wants to have a deeper, meaningful conversation.
Sara gives Jessica more ideas, including making a list of topics that she could talk about. Jessica is afraid that these simple topics will be boring and cliche, but Sara says that they are universal and easy for all people to talk about. Jessica wants more help in order to be prepared, so Sara says that she will give her a class on Small Talk 101.
Do you like to make small talk with strangers? What is the most interesting thing you learned from small talk?
Present Perfect Progressive
Jessica is telling Sara about her secret admirer. She says, “Someone has been leaving me gifts.” She uses the present perfect progressive.
We form the present perfect progressive (sometimes called the “present perfect continuous”) with have/has been + main verb + ing. We use this tense to talk about an on-going action that began in the past, is still in progress, and may continue into the future.
For example, you might say, “I have been thinking about getting a new car for weeks.” You first thought of getting a new car weeks ago, you’re currently thinking of getting one, and unless you buy one or decide not to buy one right now, you’ll continue thinking about it.
When Jessica says, “Someone has been leaving me gifts,” she uses the present perfect progressive to show that he began leaving gifts in the past, he is still leaving gifts, and he will probably continue to leave gifts.
Which is correct, “We have thinking about moving to China,” or, “We have been thinking about moving to China”?
Explanation | Past | Present | Future | |
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Simple Past | Simple Present | Future I Simple | ||
action that takes place once, never or several times | He played football every Tuesday. | He plays football every Tuesday. | He will / is going to play football every Tuesday. | |
actions that happen one after another | He played football and then he went home. | He plays football and then he goes home. | He will play football and then he will go home. | |
state | He loved football. | He loves football. | He will love football. | |
Past Progressive | Present Progressive | Future I Progressive | ||
action going on at that moment | He was playing football. | He is playing football. | He will be playing football. | |
actions taking place at the same time | He was playing football and she was watching. | He is playing football and she is watching. | He will be playing football and she will be watching. | |
Past Perfect Simple | Present Perfect Simple | Future II Simple | ||
action taking place before a certain moment in time; emphasises the result | He had won five matches until that day. | He has won five matches so far. | He will have won five matches by then. | |
Past Perfect Progressive | Present Perfect Progressive | Future II Progressive | ||
action taking place before a certain moment in time (and beyond), emphasises the duration | He had been playing football for ten years. | He has been playing football for ten years. | He will have been playing football for ten years. |
tense | Affirmative/Negative/Question | Use | Signal Words |
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Simple Present | A: He speaks. N: He does not speak. Q: Does he speak? |
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always, every …, never, normally, often, seldom, sometimes, usually if sentences type I (If Italk, …) |
Present Progressive | A: He is speaking. N: He is not speaking. Q: Is he speaking? |
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at the moment, just, just now, Listen!, Look!, now, right now |
Simple Past | A: He spoke. N: He did not speak. Q: Did he speak? |
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yesterday, 2 minutes ago, in 1990, the other day, last Friday if sentence type II (If Italked, …) |
Past Progressive | A: He was speaking. N: He was not speaking. Q: Was he speaking? |
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when, while, as long as |
Present Perfect Simple | A: He has spoken. N: He has not spoken. Q: Has he spoken? |
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already, ever, just, never, not yet, so far, till now, up to now |
Present Perfect Progressive | A: He has been speaking. N: He has not been speaking. Q: Has he been speaking? |
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all day, for 4 years, since 1993, how long?, the whole week |
Past Perfect Simple | A: He had spoken. N: He had not spoken. Q: Had he spoken? |
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already, just, never, not yet, once, until that day if sentence type III (If Ihad talked, …) |
Past Perfect Progressive | A: He had been speaking. N: He had not been speaking. Q: Had he been speaking? |
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for, since, the whole day, all day |
Future I Simple | A: He will speak. N: He will not speak. Q: Will he speak? |
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in a year, next …, tomorrow If-Satz Typ I (If you ask her, she will help you.) assumption: I think, probably, perhaps |
Future I Simple
(going to) |
A: He is going to speak. N: He is not going to speak. Q: Is he going to speak? |
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in one year, next week, tomorrow |
Future I Progressive | A: He will be speaking. N: He will not be speaking. Q: Will he be speaking? |
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in one year, next week, tomorrow |
Future II Simple | A: He will have spoken. N: He will not have spoken. Q: Will he have spoken? |
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by Monday, in a week |
Future II Progressive | A: He will have been speaking. N: He will not have been speaking. Q: Will he have been speaking? |
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for …, the last couple of hours, all day long |
Conditional I Simple | A: He would speak. N: He would not speak. Q: Would he speak? |
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if sentences type II (If I were you, I would go home.) |
Conditional I Progressive | A: He would be speaking. N: He would not be speaking. Q: Would he be speaking? |
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Conditional II Simple | A: He would have spoken. N: He would not have spoken. Q: Would he have spoken? |
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if sentences type III (If I had seen that, Iwould have helped.) |
Conditional II Progressive | A: He would have been speaking. N: He would not have been speaking. Q: Would he have been speaking? |
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Maori name: | Aotearoa (= land of the white cloud) |
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Capital: | Wellington |
Size: | 270,534 km² |
Population: | 3.5 million |
Borders: | no direct borders; surrounded by sea (South Pacific) |
Currency: | New Zealand Dollar |
Official languages: | English, Maori |
Nationality / People: | A person of New Zealand nationality is a New Zealander. |
Local time: | 23:46 NZST (Tuesday, 9th February 2016) |
The country's nearest neighbour is Australia, which lies more than 1,600 km northwest of New Zealand. New Zealand comprises two main islands (North Island and South Island) and a number of small islands, some of which are hundreds of kilometres from the main islands.
Official name: | Commonwealth of Australia |
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Capital: | Canberra |
Size: | 7.7 million km² |
Population: | 21 million |
Borders: | no direct borders; Timor Sea and Arafura Sea (northwest), Torres Strait (northeast), Great Barrier Reef (northeast), Tasman Sea (southeast), Indian Ocean (south) |
Currency: | Australian Dollar |
Official language: | English |
Nationality / People | A person of Australian nationality is an Australian. |
Local time: | Perth: 19:45 WST (Tuesday, 9th February 2016) Sydney: 21:45 EST (Tuesday, 9th February 2016) |
Australia is not only a country but also the smallest continent.
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Official name: | Republic of Ireland |
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Irish name: | Éire |
Capital: | Dublin |
Size: | 70,282 km² |
Population: | 3.5 million |
Borders: | Northern Ireland (north), Irish Sea (east), Atlantic Ocean (south, west) |
Currency: | Euro |
Official languages: | English, Irish |
Nationality / People: | A person of Irish nationality is an Irishman or an Irishwoman. |
Local time: | 11:43 GMT (Tuesday, 9th February 2016) |
As Ireland is famous for its green countryside, it is also known as the “Emerald Isle” (= green island).